Woman to Women
Questions rise about what it is Women think when they “give it up” easily? Is it the loss of affection at home, the lack of modesty, self respect, and common sense?
This is one thing that strikes as “low” “insecure” and “easy”, especially to men. Waking up and living isn’t about shouting out -YOLO- and getting yourself into a pool of stupidity, and irresponsible acts. Problems don’t only rise from situations at home, but also from society. Society has set the impression that it is OKAY to party, to drink, smoke, get laid, pregnant, and drop out. Since not only will the government support you with qualified benefits, but you are 1 in a few that will probably end up on a reality show.
REALITY CHECK WOMEN!!!!!
If you weren’t so busy worrying about what to do to be giving the title of a “BAD BITCH” “DIME” “WHORE” “RACHET”, you might actually catch yourself slipping into a life of opportunities. Hitting the hottest clubs, or the livest concerts, and blocking the idea of being responsible is not only going to get you played, used, and classified as “One of the many” but it will leave you in nothing but regrets, despair, and living a life full of What if’s..
As a woman, I can’t say I represent an entire generation when I come about this topic. What goes into the minds of women who find it okay to come off as easy to men, and giving it up on the first date, week, or even month is simply the fact of the want and need of attention, affection, and some even feel they have the same rights as men when it comes to sexual desires. Women ask “Why should men only sleep around, and not worry about their reputation being in jeopardy?”
Some feminists, think that being able to give it up is not because they are trying to come off as easy, but yet they are holding on to liberal rights that men and women are created equal.
Men don’t look for equality, or similarity for a matter of fact, they look for uniqueness, they look for a woman with a quite dignity. A man looks for a woman who has something educated to say, goals to accomplish, dreams to chase, aspirations that can’t be found in just anyone. They look for a teammate, someone with ambitions, passion, and the strength to hold not an egalitarian type of relationship, but more of a traditional lifestyle. Therefore, Don’t expect to be chased, or wanted if you hold a firm mindset that since men can sleep around, that it gives you women the right to do same. Keep in mind, Men seek identity then search for intimacy, however, Women have the tendency to mix business with pleasure, and the outcomes never come down to whats liberal enough, it’s all about how you hold yourself up not put yourself down ladies.
Women are so worried about how they can be the “loud” ones in bed, to the extent the neighbors might end up calling the cops. They question why most men are so quiet that they can barely tell if they’re having fun! This is a common complaint from women, especially in bi-cultural couples. You never know, maybe he’s actually having the time of his life. Most men, however, are introverts, and perhaps some come from a quiet family, so they don’t equate noise with passion. Talk about it— but NOT when you’re in bed. Ask him, “Why is my expressing passion so uncomfortable for you?” If he says “I’m shy”, well there goes your answer for both of his reactions. But don’t let that repress you; this is less about sex than about getting to know each other and understanding each other’s cultural-and vocal- differences. ;)
